Being accused of domestic violence is a serious and life-changing event. In California, a domestic violence allegation can affect not only your reputation but also your parental rights, your living situation, and even your financial stability. Whether or not criminal charges are filed, a Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO) from family court can impact custody, visitation, and support orders. If you’ve been accused, it’s critical to understand your rights and get experienced legal help right away.
First, take the allegation seriously even if you believe it’s exaggerated or false. Many people make the mistake of ignoring court papers or assuming things will “blow over,” but failing to respond can lead to restraining orders being granted against you by default. This can result in losing access to your home, limited or supervised time with your children, and long-term consequences in your family law case. Always read any paperwork carefully and respond by the deadlines listed. And only respond to the court. Don’t try to reach out to your accuser to try and reason with them or talk about the situation. This can be a violation of a Temporary Restraining Order which will have a significant impact on your case once you get to your hearing.
Next, understand that you have the right to defend yourself. The court will hold a hearing where both sides can present evidence, witnesses, and testimony. It’s not enough to simply tell the judge “it’s not true,” you’ll need to prepare a solid defense, gather evidence, and make sure your voice is heard. Yes, you can represent yourself in court, but for a matter that has such an impact on the rest of your life, why would you? And one last thing, even if the other party later wants to drop the request, the court has the final say and may still proceed.
At The Grey Legal Group, APC, we know that domestic violence cases are complex and emotionally charged and that there are two sides to every story. Our experienced family law attorneys can help you understand your rights, build your defense, and protect your future. Contact us today to schedule a confidential consultation and take the next step toward resolving your case.