Summer is usually a time for family vacations, backyard barbecues, and long sunny days. For families going through a divorce, it can bring unique challenges. With kids out of school, shifting schedules, and travel plans in the mix, divorced or divorcing parents need to communicate clearly and plan ahead to keep things running smoothly. The goal? To give the kids a summer filled with positive memories, not stress.
One of the most important things to focus on is the parenting schedule. If you already have a custody order in place, stick to it as closely as possible, unless both parents agree (in writing) to a change. If you’re still working out the details, remember that summer often requires a different plan than the school year. Who’s covering childcare? How will vacations be handled? Clear communication between parents, even if it’s tough, can help avoid last-minute conflicts or misunderstandings.
Another tip: keep the focus on the kids. I can’t stress this enough. Divorce is hard enough without dragging children into the middle of disagreements. Can you imagine the damage it causes when a parent makes them feel guilty for enjoying time with the other parent. Avoid badmouthing, stay flexible when possible, and remember that your children will remember how you handled this transition. A little extra patience and grace can go a long way in making sure summer break stays a happy time for them.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure about how to manage custody or parenting issues this summer, The Grey Legal Group, APC is here to help. Our experienced family law attorneys can help you understand your rights, clarify your parenting plan, and guide you through any necessary legal steps. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and take the next step toward a smoother summer for you and your family.