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Back-to-School and Custody Arrangements: Planning Ahead

Kids with backpacks and school supplies by front door

Back-to-school season can be exciting for kids. It means new teachers, new routines, and a sometimes even a new school. But for divorced or separated parents, it can also bring up challenges around custody, schedules, and communication. Planning ahead can help avoid last-minute stress and keep the focus where it belongs: on making sure the kids have a smooth, successful transition into the school year. 

First, check your custody order or parenting plan. Does it cover school-year schedules, transportation, homework routines, and after-school activities? If not, now’s the time to have a conversation with your co-parent. Who’s responsible for pick-ups and drop-offs? How will you handle school events, parent-teacher conferences, or emergencies? Clear agreements up front can help prevent misunderstandings later. 

Another key tip: share important information. Make sure both parents have access to school calendars, contact info, report cards, and notices. Even if you and your co-parent don’t communicate well, keeping each other in the loop helps the kids stay supported and reduces the chances of conflicts. And remember back-to-school isn’t just about logistics; it’s about emotional adjustment too. Check in with your kids about how they’re feeling and reassure them that both parents are on their team. 

If you’re facing back-to-school custody challenges or need to update your parenting plan, The Grey Legal Group, APC is here to help. Our experienced family law attorneys can help you navigate the legal details and create a plan that works for your family. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and take the next step toward a smoother, more peaceful school year.